January 18. Eric Protzman. Eric knew God—in a way, loved his family, and thought life would be fair. How do you think that worked out? 

Life is unfair; God can turn your pain into his purpose. 

After Eric watched his grandfather suffer eight long years of the degradation of dementia, Eric told God, “I’m out.” 

His grandfather, Dr. Weston, had been a surgeon who had restored—to many other people—lives of dignity. But for the doctor, there was no dignity. Dementia had scraped away his dignity. Eric’s grandfather was humiliated. And Eric resented God for his grandfather’s loss. 

For Eric, it was easy to shut faith out, and it was easy to lock his heart “stone cold.” He simply narrowed his focus to Christians like TV evangelists—ones who manipulated and preyed upon people. There. That proved it: religion was a scam. 

After his grandfather’s death, Eric and Nancy, his fiancée, moved ahead with wedding plans. But things didn’t really improve. 

They asked Eric’s grandmother to sing for the wedding ceremony, but when the time came, she was too ill. And while Eric and Nancy honeymooned in Europe, his grandmother died. 

When they got home, the newlyweds visited Nancy’s parents, Bob and Bonnie, and grief overcame Eric. He fled to their basement, sobbing. 

After some time, Bob came downstairs to offer comfort. 

“I do not believe in your God, and I will never believe in your God,” Eric said. 

“Eric, the good news is—this is not up to you.” Bob’s voice was tender. 

Eric knew he had been disrespectful, but all he could see was his own anger. 

For Bob, it should have been a “get out of my house moment,” but Bob responded with grace. 

No berating. No lecture. Just come-on-upstairs-when-you’re-ready. 

Over the years, Eric earned more opportunities to get a “finger-wagging” from his father-in-law, but it never came. Not once. 

Every day, Bob and Bonnie prayed for Eric’s return to faith. Bob never confronted, lectured, or pushed the issue. He left it to Jesus to convince Eric God was real, and Bob stuck to the part of the job that was his—loving Eric as Jesus did. 

Eric put Christians down. But never Bob and Bonnie. Eric didn’t believe what they believed, but they were too respectful to raise his ire. 

As months turned into years, Eric did life. Bought a home. Had children. Established a successful career. 

Nancy’s faith grew, too. She demonstrated the grit, infinite justice, and grace of Jesus. 

Of course, Eric noticed, but he kept his heart on lockdown. When Nancy got up, dressed the children, and took them to church, he respected her choice. He just didn’t join her. 

But Bob, Bonnie, and Nancy kept praying—for fifteen years. Eric climbed the success ladder with no desire to return to faith. But stirrings deep inside him started chipping away at his stony heart. They nourished him. Drew him. Called to him. 

One day, as he sat at the desk where he worked for a Fortune 500 company, he heard the Holy Spirit so clearly it was practically audible. “Welcome back,” God said. “You didn’t get a glove on Me. I’m much stronger than you think I am.” 

Time stopped. 

“You will work for me for the rest of your life,” the Voice added. The words were spoken with such kindness—gentle and matter-of-factly—so that Eric experienced them as a gift, not a command, warning, or threat. Eric welcomed the message. It felt completely true. 

That was in 1991. Eric, now sixty-five, has enjoyed twenty-eight years of working for God. “It’s our job to open eyes and ears,” Eric said. “You don’t do that by prying them open. You whisper.” You love. Listen. Treat others with dignity. The same way Bob—and Jesus—treated Eric. 

“The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying, ‘I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness’” (Jeremiah 31:3 NIV). 

What wound has challenged your faith? Where do you sense God drawing you out of pain and into faith? Life is unfair; God can turn your pain into his purpose. 

Based on an interview with Eric Protzman, 2019.

January 17. Antony the Great. According to theologian Athanasius, when Antony was about 20, the devil afflicted him with boredom, laziness, and phantoms of women, which Antony overcame by waging a war of prayer. 

After fifteen years of this battle, at 35, Anthony withdrew from public life and lived in absolute solitude in an abandoned Roman fortress, where people tossed food to him over the wall. Still people found him. Over the years, many people had flocked to the hermit Antony and returned healed of their ailments. The man was gifted with discernment and steadfast faith. 

Some people asked the monk to pray, and some simply slept outside his door, believing that they could be healed just by being in his presence. It was never Antony himself who healed them, but God, who was working through Antony. Yet Antony’s faith meant life-changing rescue to everyone who sought him. 

The way you live out your faith may be another man’s lifeline. 

There was an honorable military officer named Martinian, who was raising a family, and he believed in God. But one day he found his sweet daughter afflicted with an evil spirit. 

Horrified, Martinian would have done anything to see his daughter in her right mind again. Antony was the man for the job. 

So Martinian hiked into the desert, where Antony lived alone on a mountain near the east bank of the Nile River. Martinian walked and kept walking and eventually came upon the abandoned Roman fort where Antony had lived for nearly twenty years. 

Martinian knocked on the door and waited. He listened for any sign of movement from inside, but he heard nothing. 

Again, he knocked—longer—and he yelled for the hermit. 

Still, there was no answer. Desperate, Martinian resolved to knock until the hermit answered, and he kept knocking and pleading for Antony to come out and pray to God for his little girl. 

Finally, though he would not open the door, Antony’s voice rose above the noise of the officer’s pounding. 

Martinian stopped and listened. 

“Man, why do you call on me?” Antony said. “I also am a man even as you. But if you believe on Christ whom I serve, go, and according as you believe, pray to God, and it shall come to pass.” 

Martinian did not protest, as other pilgrims had, but he left immediately. Believing Antony’s instruction, he called out to God and asked Him to heal his daughter. 

When Martinian got home, he saw his daughter free from the evil spirit, and he was so happy. 

Antony had never seen the girl but found confirming joy in his heart. 

“When Jesus had entered Capernaum, a centurion came to him, asking for help. ‘Lord,’ he said, ‘my servant lies at home paralyzed, suffering terribly.’ 

“Jesus said to him, ‘Shall I come and heal him?’ 

“The centurion replied, ‘Lord, I do not deserve to have you come under my roof. But just say the word, and my servant will be healed. For I myself am a man under authority, with soldiers under me. I tell this one, “Go,” and he goes; and that one, “Come,” and he comes. I say to my servant, “Do this,” and he does it.’ 

“When Jesus heard this, he was amazed and said to those following him, ‘Truly I tell you, I have not found anyone in Israel with such great faith.…’ Then Jesus said to the centurion, ‘Go! Let it be done just as you believed it would.’ And his servant was healed at that moment” (Matthew 8:5–10, 13 NIV). 

How can you use your own gifts in faith to strengthen someone else today? The way you live out your faith may be another man’s lifeline. 

Servants’ Preparation Program. Nashville: Coptic Orthodox Diocese of the Southern United States, 2002. http://docshare01.docshare.tips/files/2097/20971251.pdf

“St. Anthony of Egypt: Egyptian Monk.” Encyclopaedia Britannica, Jan. 12, 2000, https://‌www.britannica.com/‌biography/‌Saint-Anthony-of-Egypt

St. Athanasius. “Life of St. Antony.” St. Athanasius: Select Works and Letters, edited by Philip Schaff and Henry Wace. New York: Christian Literature Publishing Co., 1892. pp. 188–221. 

January 16. Malcolm Gladwell. In 2013, Malcom published David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants. Throughout the first year of research on this book, he collected examples of people’s disadvantages turning into advantages. 

For example, many American presidents and British prime ministers had lost a parent in childhood. A young shepherd boy beat the giant Goliath. 

Malcolm spent time in libraries and talking to social scientists, pouring over research to find how this had happened. Today’s story begins as Malcom meets the Derksens, whose daughter has just been murdered. Surely this disadvantage could never be turned to any kind of good. 

Turns out: it took more than twenty years for Candace’s killer to be found. Here’s what Malcolm found out. 

Jesus gives ordinary people extraordinary power, if they’re willing. 

Malcolm was on his way to Winnipeg to interview Wilma Derksen, whose teenaged daughter, Candace had disappeared on her way home from school. A week later, she was found—her hands and feet bound—and she was dead. 

At the time, the search for Candace had become Winnipeg’s biggest manhunt in the city’s history, and as the tragedy unfolded, Wilma and her husband Cliff were called to a news conference. 

One of the reporters asked, “How do you feel about whoever did this to Candace?” 

Cliff said, “We would like to know who the person or persons are so we could share, hopefully, a love that seems to be missing in these people’s lives.” 

Wilma added, “I can’t say at this point I forgive the person. We have all done something dreadful in our lives, or have felt the urge to.” 

The Derksen’s lack of vengeance and anger intrigued Malcolm, and he wondered how a family—whose daughter had been brutally murdered—could find such strength. 

Wilma told Malcom that her family had emigrated from Russia after suffering persecution for their faith, and she grew up in the Mennonite tradition. “I was taught that there was an alternative way to deal with injustice,” she said. “I was taught it in school. We were taught the history of persecution. We had this picture of martyrdom that went right back to the sixteenth century. The whole Mennonite philosophy is that we forgive and we move on.” 

Ironic. Malcolm had grown up in a Mennonite community in Ontario, and his family was full of seminarians and preachers. The running joke back then had been that Malcolm was the only one who hadn’t preached a sermon. 

But when he moved to New York, he stopped attending church. He still believed in God. He just held onto the evidence and physical side of God—the logic of the Christian faith. Outside of logic, there wasn’t much he was holding onto. 

But with Wilma in her garden, he felt a change in his heart. She was so normal. How could she overcome something so horrible? And he saw what he had been missing in his own faith: the power of Christ. 

“It was one thing to read in a history book about people empowered by their faith,” Malcolm wrote. “But it is quite another to meet an otherwise very ordinary person, in the backyard of a very ordinary house, who has managed to do something utterly extraordinary.” The Derksens—through their press conference—showed the whole country the path to forgiveness. That could only be explained by the power of Christ at work in their lives. It was what Malcolm had been missing. He knew he had his own journey to take, just like the people in his interviews. He had been missing the power and beauty of the faith he grew up in. “Here I was writing about people of extraordinary circumstances,” he wrote, “and it slowly dawned on me that I can have that too.” 

“My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever” (Psalm 73:26 NIV). 

Do you see the power of God working in your life? Do you want to? Jesus gives ordinary people extraordinary powerif they’re willing. 

“Malcolm Gladwell: How I Rediscovered Faith.” Published July 27, 2020. Relevant Magazine. https://​relevantmagazine.com/​life5/​malcolm-gladwell-how-i-rediscovered-faith/

Gladwell, Malcolm. David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants. New York: Little, Brown and Company, 2013.  

Bailey, Sarah Pulliam. “Author Malcolm Gladwell finds his faith again.” Published October 11, 2013. The Washington Post. https://​www.washingtonpost.com/​local/​author-malcolm-gladwell-finds-his-faith-again/​2013/​10/​11/​d633d8f4–3266–11e3–89ae-16e186e117d8_​story.html

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January 15. CI Scofield. On this date in 1909, Scofield published the Scofield Reference Bible. He had started out as an attorney, and President Ulysses S. Grant appointed him US district attorney for the District of Kansas. But when ugly rumors emerged about bribes, thieving, and forgery, Scofield resigned and left the area. 

He was a man with many gifts and one enormous problem. Early in his life, that problem caused Scofield a lot of grief. But none of our problems are too big for God. Listen to the story. 

Stuck in secret sin? Be transparent. Your mess might be your message. 

Scofield’s early life was in the fast lane and heading to a bad end. He had abandoned his wife and child, fled a government job to avoid charges, and embraced a life of anesthesia by alcohol. 

But God had a plan for Scofield’s life and sent a friend named Thomas McPheeters. 

McPheeters challenged his friend, “Why aren’t you a Christian?” 

“Scofield tried to deflect the conversation. ‘Does not the Bible say something about drunkards having no place in heaven? I’m a hard drinker, McPheeters.’  

“‘You haven’t answered my question, Scofield. Why are you not a Christian?’  

“‘I do not recall ever having been shown just how to be a Christian. I do not know how.’” 

McPheeters read aloud: “Let it be known to you therefore, brothers, that through this man [Jesus] forgiveness of sins is proclaimed to you, and by him everyone who believes is freed from everything from which you could not be freed by the law of Moses” (Acts 13:38,39 ESV). 

“It was as if the words pierced Scofield’s heart. Like the Philippian jailer, Scofield asked, ‘What must I do to be saved?’” 

McPheeters read the words again. Then the two men knelt, and Scofield received Jesus Christ as his Savior. 

Later, Scofield told his biographer Mr. Trumbull, “Oh! Trumbull, put it into the story, put it big and plain: instantly the chains were broken never to be forged again—the passion for drink was taken away. Put it ‘instantly,’ dear Trumbull. Make it plain. Don’t say: ‘He strove with his drink-sin and came off the victor.’ He did nothing of the kind. Divine power did it, wholly of grace. To Christ be all the glory.” 

Scofield quickly got into Christian work with YMCA and formed a relationship with a remarkable preacher, pastor, and Bible teacher of St. Louis and spent many hours in the pastor’s home studying the Bible with him. 

Later, he shared his story of deliverance. He realized, “by the grace of God I am what I am,” (1 Corinthians 15:10).” He didn’t want others to think his deliverance came from his own human ingenuity or victorious efforts. It had come solely by the grace of God. 

But prominent preacher DL Moody advised Scofield against telling the story of his rescue from alcoholism. Moody firmly believed sin was under the blood of the Jesus. He thought it might lessen Scofield’s credibility as a minister. Moody thought the only exception should be during revival meetings where drinking men might be present. 

Scofield didn’t want to respond hastily. He played the conversation over in his mind again. Then wisely replied, “I must leave myself in the hands of the Holy Spirit for whatever guidance He might indicate.” 

Shortly after this, Scofield spoke to an audience of about eight-hundred students at Northfield, where Moody pastored. During the course of his sermon, he was strongly impressed to give the testimony of his own deliverance from being enslaved to alcohol through the all sufficient power of the Holy Spirit. 

Scofield said, “Great opportunities had indeed been given me, and for years I made them my own. But slowly, insidiously, the all but universal habit of drink in the society and among the men of my time overmastered me. I was not a victor in the battle of life but a ruined and hopeless man who, despite all his struggles, was fast bound in chains of his own forging. [The man I had become] had no thought of Christ … but the Lord of glory sought him. Through Thomas McPheeters, a joyous, hopeful soul, Jesus Christ offered Himself to that wreck. That wreck, Scofield accepted Jesus Christ.” 

It was evident God greatly blessed the lives of the students through Scofield’s transparency. After the service, Moody said emphatically, “Scofield, you take the advice of the Holy Spirit hereafter, and not of DL Moody.” 

What parts of your life do you hesitate to share? If secret sin has you bound, choose to be transparent. Your mess can be your message. 

Trumbull, Charles, and Mark Walter. (Kindle Locations 363–370) The Life Story of C. I. Scofield. January 30, 2014. 

Pickering, Hy, “Conversion of C. I. Scofield: An American Lawyer.” Accessed September 23, 2020. Wholesome Words Home. https://​www.wholesomewords.org/​biography/​bscofield2.html

January 14. Deano Sargent. Deano was a man who loved God, loved his neighbor, and loved to farm. He was a faithful man. A faithful man who did the job at hand, cared for the people at hand, and didn’t worry himself about getting to the top. Here’s his story. 

When you value God’s people, they begin to see their worth. 

The tractor motor roared, and Deano kept a steady eye on the horizon, a wake of heartland dust rising behind him. His heart overflowed with gratitude. How could simply serving God and loving others have led him here? 

For as long as he could remember, Deano had always hoped of being a farmer, and now he was living the dream. 

As a new resident of a small-farming town and rookie farmer, Deano decided to meet his neighbors. Rejecting the scuttlebutt about the “odd” couple who lived in the little red farmhouse, one day Deano showed up on their front porch—with a firm knock and a friendly smile. 

The door opened, and a committee greeted him: there was Floyd and Mary and a heap of cats. Deano took Floyd’s leathery hand and pumped. And a unique friendship began. 

Deano soon learned that this elderly couple had no children and no one to help them out in their time of need. And Floyd and Mary’s concerns became Deano’s to-do list. 

“Everyone has a story, and their story deserves to be heard,” Deano often said. 

From then on, Floyd regularly invited Deano to help on the farm. And Deano was happy to serve. He figured that was what God had created him for—and why God had put this love of farming in his soul. 

But, in Floyd, Deano also found a farming mentor. And the two men enjoyed a growing bond around their shared love of farming. 

One chilly spring morning, Deano got up before the sun made its appearance, and he hopped in his truck. He rumbled down the old gravel road to Floyd and Mary’s farm, and his coffee sloshed in the cupholder. 

As he stepped out of his truck, Deano smiled and thought it was a beautiful morning. Without being asked, he had stopped by to spray Floyd’s fields for weeds before he went to work. 

From the farmhouse, Floyd had heard the truck pull up and hurried out to see who was there. Surprised to see Deano, especially at this hour, Floyd walked out to the field and said, “Deano, I want you to do something for me. I want you to tell me you will take care of Mary if anything should happen to me.” 

Deano was surprised. And with a compassionate smile said, “Sure, Floyd. You bet.” That was it. A short conversation, and they got on with the business of spraying weeds. 

In the days ahead, Deano invited Floyd to Stiles Christian Church, where Deano served as an elder. Floyd gave his heart to Christ there, and was thrilled to have finally found a church family who accepted him and loved him like Deano. 

And it was this same church family who wrapped their arms around Mary, when Floyd unexpectedly passed away. 

From that day on, Deano visited Mary nearly every night, and he brought along caring conversation and a few jokes to brighten her day. He became the son she never had. 

Whether taking her for Sunday drives around the farm, or attending special events at her nursing home, he was doing what he did best, planting seeds of love—in God’s creation. 

On one of their many drives around the farmland, Mary said to him, “Deano, I want you to have all of this when I’m gone. All 600 acres.” And when she joined Floyd in heaven, she made that happen. 

To anyone who would listen, Deano would say, “J.O.Y.—surely means Jesus first, yourself last and others in between.” 

“Plant the good seeds of righteousness, and you will harvest a crop of love” (Hosea 10:12 NLT). 

Is there someone in your life who needs to be reminded of their value? When you value God’s people, they begin to see their worth. 

Based on an interview with Sandy Sargent and Melinda Sargent Bray, August 4, 2019. 

Story read by: Chuck Stecker 

Introduction read by: Daniel Carpenter 

Audio production: Joel Carpenter 

Story written by: Shelli Mandeville, https://worthy.life/ 

Editor: Teresa Crumpton, https://authorspark.org/ 

Project manager: Blake Mattocks 

© 2020, 365 Christian Men. LLC. All rights reserved. 

January 13. CT Studd. CT was considered England’s most outstanding cricket player. By the time he was 16, he was an excellent player, and he played all through college and became famous throughout England. 

Full of energy and courage, CT walked away from cricket, left Cambridge, to preach the Gospel in China. CT had many, many major adventures and founded the Worldwide Evangelization Crusade. On this date in 1887, CT gave away a large portion of his inheritance to support George Mueller’s work with orphans. 

If God leads you into a tight spot, He’ll have your back.  

Star cricket player CT Studd loved God, he loved people, and he wanted to “run a rescue shop within a yard of hell.” When he heard about a tribe of cannibals in the heart of Africa—who had never heard about Jesus—he had to go to Africa. 

No matter CT was over 50 years old. No matter his health was iffy. No matter the cannibals had filed their teeth to sharp points. 

CT welcomed tight spots—just to see how God would get him out. And—in any situation God led him—CT refused the negative point of view. 

With hired porters, CT and (his soon-to-be son-in-law) Alfred set out across Africa on bicycles with hard seats and skinny tires. No modern roads, no paved paths—no reason to complain. CT kept pedaling. 

The first night in the Congo, they pitched a tent twenty yards from Lake Albert, where “the flies provided a treble to the … barking of the crocodiles,” CT said. “It was not altogether nice to have them so close.” Though he would never complain or worry, he did wisely burn a good fire all night between the crocodiles and his bed. 

As they moved on, the journey was slow going, and they often had to carry their bikes, which CT declared no problem. Massive trees turned the “midday sun to twilight.” Steaming heat rose from thick vegetation full of leopards and lions and lowland gorillas. 

At one point, Alfred and CT got separated from their porters, and the bicycles were little help on steep hills and through crowded villages. Hot and hungry, the guys had no money, no food, and very little understanding of the language. They stumbled through a village, not completely pleased with life. 

CT begged a man with a basket of maize and sweet potatoes to sell them food. And the man agreed. 

But how would they pay for it? 

CT grinned. God’s provision was very near. Why were there so many buttons on breeches? To be cut off and used as money, of course! The native went away happy. (But—instead of clothes, the villagers oiled their skin. So CT wondered how the man’s wife would sew his new buttons on.) 

Now CT and Alfred had food, but no way to prepare it. At the next village, they found a man with actual clothes on. Time to barter with buttons. The man made them a fire. But CT had no pot or griddle or even a paper bag. 

No problem. 

The man threw their food into the fire, and—thirty minutes later—when he pulled it out, CT declared the food “unspoiled” by rich sauces. 

The presence of two white guys with too many clothes on did attract a little too much attention. But CT and Alfred were “lank, lean, and tough,” so their new pointy-toothed friends-in-need were not “tempted beyond what they were able to bear.” Intact, CT and Alfred left the village. 

As they traveled, CT and Alfred fought a fever. It was like being knocked in the head by the devil. Fever rose. Medication failed. Weakness increased. 

Scripture said if anyone was sick to anoint them and pray, but CT and Alfred didn’t have salad oil, or olive oil, or even linseed oil. They decided lamp oil worked just fine. That night CT felt he was at the edge of death. But come morning he was fit as an African fiddle. 

CT and Alfred told the tribesmen about Jesus, and the first baptism was held in a river. To keep their new converts safe, CT had two jobs: 1. Dunk people. 2. Shoot crocodiles. 

Eventually he and Alfred settled in an African village. People from all around came to hear about Jesus. One man and his wife walked 200 miles to hear about God. “He never missed a meeting.” 

It seems CT was open to anything the Lord delivered. One converted cannibal, also an ex-soldier, took it upon himself to keep the 200 oiled bodies respectful. If, during prayer, someone opened his eyes, he popped them on the head and told them to behave in God’s house. If someone prayed too long, CT said, “Now we’ll sing a hymn while our brother finishes.” 

One man stood and said he was sorry. Everyone listened. He had to confess he had eaten his uncle. 

“In my desperation I prayed, and the LORD listened; he saved me from all my troubles” (Psalm 34:6 NLT). 

How do you respond to difficult situations? If God leads you into a tight spot, He’ll have your back.  

Grubb, Norman. Chapter Fifteen: “Through Cannibal Tribes.” CT Studd—Cricketer and Pioneer. Fort Washington, PA: Christian Literature Crusade, 1982 (Original publication date: 1933). 

Hammond, Peter. Cricketer for ChristCT Studd (1860–1931). Published January 20, 2017. Frontline Fellowship. https://www.slideshare.net/frontfel/ct-studd-cricketer-for-christ

“Chapter 26.” THE FUNDAMENTALS – A TESTIMONY TO THE TRUTH Vol. 4, Edited by R.A. Torrey, A.C. Dixon and Others. Accessed September 23, 2020. AGES Digital Library, 2000. (Original publication of essays 1910–1915). http://www.ntslibrary.com/PDF% 20Books% 20II/Torrey% 20-% 20The% 20Fundamentals% 204.pdf.

January 12. Richie Parker. Richie is a mechanical engineer. About his life, he says, “I’m thankful that I don’t have arms.” And he means it. Without arms, he’s earned a Masters of Business Administration and Engineering degree. Without arms, he became a star in auto-racing design. Without arms, he’s now using his education and his experience to help others with disabilities. 

In his shop working on cars in various states of repair, he says, “We have to be thankful for what we don’t have because a lot of times that’s what shapes us into what we are.” Here’s his story. 

Facing a challenge? Embrace it, and count on God.  

He slid into the front seat of his car and kicked off his shoes. Inserting the key into the ignition and turning it with his toes, the engine in his 64 Chevy Super Sport roared to life. Leaning over he slipped the seat belt clip in place with his mouth and nudged the gear shift into drive with his shoulder. It was time to go. 

Armed with his freshly printed Mechanical Engineering degree from Clemson University and his relentless drive to achieve, Richie headed out for one of the most important meetings of his young life.  

Growing up without arms, Richie was surrounded by a chorus of doubters telling him what he couldn’t do without hands — they had said he couldn’t ride a bike, drive a car, or find a good job.  

But Richie never listened, and he did all that. “You either embrace the challenges and find a way, or you let the obstacles get the best of you.” He developed solutions and overcame every obstacle that stood in the way of achieving his dream—a career in automotive engineering.  

Pulling out of the driveway, Richie’s ever-present smile was a little bit bigger that morning as his calloused feet artfully used the special steering wheel on the floorboard—a steering wheel he had designed.  

This was going to be his day.  

He had been selected as a candidate for a ten-week NASCAR Diversity Internship Program with Hendrick Motor Sports, the most winning organization in NASCAR.  

Richie entered Hendrick’s headquarters for his interview with the company’s engineering manager Rex Stump, and a lot of people were looking on. They had no idea what he could do or what he was going to do there. But they were about to find out. 

“I think I had about 20 resumes that I went through before I settled on Richie’s,” Stump said. “I knew he could do the things that I needed him to do; it was more a question of how.” 

Rex and Richie sat at the computer, and Richie took his shoes off and put the keyboard and mouse on the floor. Stump’s question was immediately answered as Richie flew through the design challenge. He could type faster with his feet than most people could with their hands. 

It was just the crack in the opportunity door Richie needed.  

What was to be a ten-week internship working with the likes of NASCAR legends Jimmy Johnson, Jeff Gordon, and Dale Earnhardt Jr. turned into a twelve-year position as a Vehicle Design Engineer … designing engine and chassis components with his feet.  

Ultimately, Richie became the Group Manager, contributing to over 100 wins and 7 NASCAR Championships.  

But his dream didn’t stop there!  

While working fulltime, he earned his Master of Business Administration in Entrepreneurship and Innovation. Now his dream of owning his own consulting company designing tools to improve the quality of life of people with physical challenges became a reality.  

Richie’s dream continues to grow because he never forgets how he got there. “My faith in God has been a part of my life since day one. God made me the way I am, and as I have gotten older —the man that I am today—I am able to help other people realize that a big part of life is understanding God’s plan, accepting his plan, and then embracing his plan. When times are hard, and my back is against the wall, I grow closer to God.” 

“But there is [a vital force] a spirit [of intelligence] in man, And the breath of the Almighty gives them understanding” (Job 32:8 AMP). 

Facing a challenge? Embrace it, and count on God.  

“Throughout his life, Richie Parker has found a way.” Published April 16, 2014. Salisbury Posthttps://‌www.salisburypost.com/‌2014/‌04/‌16/‌throughout-his-life-richie-parker-has-found-a-way/

Blair, Leonardo. “Man Born Without Hands Is Engineer for NASCAR’s Most Winning Organization.” Published August 6, 2013. Christian Posthttps://www.christianpost.com/news/man-born-without-hands-is-engineer-for-nascars-most-winning-organization.html

Scar, Ken, “DRIVEN: Clemson MBAe grad Richie Parker embraces life.” Published August 29, 2017. The NEWSSTAND. https://newsstand.clemson.edu/mediarelations/driven-clemson-mbae-grad-richie-parker-embraces-life/. 

Story written by: Thomas Mitchell, http://www.walkwithgod.org/ 

January 11. Chuck Stecker. Chuck is the Founder and Executive Director of A Chosen Generation—a Christ-centered ministry that exists to train up leaders for intergenerational ministry. 

As an Army Lieutenant Colonel, Chuck served as a leader, including three years on the Joint Staff in the Pentagon. Combining business experience, twenty-three years of military service and more than thirteen years of full-time ministry, Chuck delivers a clear strategy to equip, train, empower, and release a whole new generation of leaders. These leaders would develop clear pathways to keep young adults actively connected to their churches and to help them develop into the leaders that will impact every area of our society. 

A Chosen Generation is all about intergenerational ministry. Today’s story begins at a “When Men Pray” event at Nashville’s Ryman Auditorium, and it’s all about intergenerational too. 

A godly man resists the temptation to judge another man’s actions. 

Retired Lieutenant Colonels did not cry. And if they ever were to cry, it would not be in a huge public event in the Ryman Auditorium. 

But when the man with the microphone said God would heal men who had never received their father’s blessing, Chuck’s stoicism flew out the arched windows. He hadn’t seen his father in twelve years. Wasn’t sure where—or if—he lived. And Chuck bawled like a little kid. 

It was the When Men Pray conference, and a friend saw Chuck crying. The man hugged Chuck and prayed a father’s blessing over him. 

During the next month, Chuck began to heal, but it was hard to release the poison from years of resentment. 

Then Chuck traveled for ministry, and he carried a letter with a Wichita address—his father’s last known place of residence. On the way home, when Chuck reached Memphis, he had to choose between two routes. One was I 40 through Wichita. Did God really expect Chuck to seek his biological father? 

Chuck was in no mood to be spiritual. “I’m tired, God. I’m going the shortest route home.” Chuck grabbed his Rand McNally map and counted the mileage. Twice. Chuck took I 40. Then turned north on I 35 toward Wichita. 

Finally he approached the place his father lived. Trash, beer cans, and needles littered the street in front of the dilapidated apartment building. His father’s name was on a mailbox. Chuck tugged on the front door. Locked

Chuck leaned against his car. “What now, God?” 

Just then, a woman appeared and opened the door from the inside. 

He stood still, kept his hands in sight, and relaxed. The woman was clearly frightened. 

“I’ll stay right where I am, ma’am,” Chuck said. 

She gazed at him. “You’re one of the old man’s boys.” 

What was she talking about? “I’ve never been here before,” he said. 

“You’re one of the old man’s boys,” she said again. “He’s told us for years one of you would come. But it’s been so long, none of us believed him anymore.” 

She flung open the door, ran back into her apartment, and spoke through a slit in her door. “Third apartment on the right.” 

Chuck walked down there. Printed on a grimy piece of tape was his father’s name. 

Chuck knocked. Knocked again. No answer. 

A neighbor stepped from her apartment. She banged on Chuck’s father’s door. “Open up!” 

Finally, the door opened. 

And there he was, bowed over like a baboon and wearing only boxers. 

His father stared at him. “Well, I’ll be damned.” 

Chuck stepped onto a greasy carpet pocked with beer cans. He sat on a broken-down chair. And huge cockroaches scuttled up the wall. 

After an awkward visit, Chuck said he would return in the morning, and he made his escape out to his car. 

But in his hotel room that night, Chuck couldn’t sleep. 

God asked, “What control do you have over your father?” 

“None,” Chuck said. 

“What control do you have over yourself as a son?” 

“That’s what I get to control,” Chuck said. 

“Honor thy father and mother.” 

As a boy, Chuck had to be very careful around his father. If you backed him into a corner, he would coil up like a rattlesnake and strike. 

Chuck wished Scripture said to honor your father unless he was an idiot, a drunk, or a jailbird. 

But it didn’t. 

The Holy Spirit repeatedly asked the same questions and whispered, “Honor thy father and mother.” 

The next morning Chuck returned to his dad’s. On hands and knees on the dirty carpet, Chuck clutched his father’s feet and prayed aloud, “God, forgive me. I have not been the son I should have been. I have resented my father. I have not honored him.” 

His dad didn’t say much. 

With the promise to stay in touch, Chuck left. 

And Chuck kept his word. His father installed a phone to make it easier. Chuck realized no one had taught his father how to love. Yet Chuck had held his dad responsible for what he didn’t know. Based on his own needs, expectations, and desires, Chuck had judged his father. 

Three years later, during one of their visits, Chuck’s dad asked spiritual questions. 

“You have never accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, have you?” Chuck asked. 

“No,” his dad said. “If that’s why you’re here, that’s not what I’m going to do either.” 

“Dad, heaven and hell are real. I’m not much of a theologian, but I know heaven will be in the presence of God. Hell will be out of God’s presence. For eternity. 

“Someday I’ll be the family patriarch, and I’ll make sure your grandchildren know about Jesus. But if I get to heaven and you’re not there, it won’t be the same without you.” 

His dad sobbed. Then he knelt on the exact spot of carpet where—three years before—Chuck had knelt. Now they knelt  together and cried together. His dad accepted Jesus. 

“There’s a little bit of Pharisee in all of us,” says Chuck. “We hold people to standards we ourselves can’t stand up to.… I judged myself by my good intentions and my dad by his actions.” 

God’s grace changed Chuck—then it changed his dad. 

“We are careful not to judge people by what they seem to be, though we once judged Christ in that way” (2 Corinthians 5:16 CEV). 

How do you measure yourself? Is it how you measure others? A godly man resists the temptation to judge another man’s actions. 

Based on an interview with Chuck Stecker, May 23, 2020. 

Story written by: Shelli Mandeville, https://worthy.life/ 

January 10. Ray Neufeld. Ray was inducted into the Manitoba Hockey Hall of Fame. He is known as a right winger with a big shot. He played hard-hitting hockey for 14 years—595 NHL games and 235 AHL games. But Ray scored some of his biggest triumphs off the ice. Here’s the story. 

Buried bitterness breeds nothing but troubleFace off with God; He’ll set you free. 

For Ray, it was time for a face-off with God. Ray packed a bag, climbed into his truck, and drove toward his lake house in Ontario. 

As he drove, his mind wandered back to the trade of 1985—when he had replaced a popular player on the Winnipeg Jets. The player was a stand-up guy, popular with his teammates, popular with the fans, popular with everybody. 

Usually, stuff happens, and life carries on. Guys get traded, and hockey carries on. But for Ray, that trade never went away. 

Even many years later, when Ray walked the streets of Winnipeg, people remembered him as “the guy from the Trade in ’85.” 

Ray hadn’t even wanted to move to the Jets. But he had shown up, played hard, and had a successful hockey career. 

Why couldn’t he be remembered for his contributions? It especially hurt because he was a Manitoba native. The lack of acceptance got so old—and painful—that after Ray retired from hockey, he didn’t enter a rink for more than ten years. 

When Ray arrived at the lake house, he parked and unlocked the door. Hunkered down for the long, cold Canadian winter. In the silent snowy stillness, it was just him and God. 

The days unfolded slowly. So did Ray’s thoughts, emotions, and reflections. He had pushed his pain down. A man was supposed to just move on, right? 

But deep inside, Ray hadn’t moved on. 

Now Ray told God stuff he had never told anyone. He told God about the pain—not only around hockey—that Ray had shoved down. At first it felt scary, but what was he afraid of? It was always safe to be honest with God. 

Grief dripped out in tears. Wailed out in sobs. Roared out in screams. Years of bitterness poured into a journal. 

Now he understood his pain had festered into buried bitterness. Bitterness had colored his ability to process life. Spilled out into other jobs—and relationships. Created new challenges. As he had lived through the problems, he had wondered where God was. Back then, when he had asked God and heard nothing, it compounded the pain—which he had lugged around hidden for years

New thoughts surfaced. When he got traded, he had struggled for sobriety. With the trade came teammates Doug Smail and Laurie Boschman. And Ray hung with them to avoid alcohol. 

They became friends. Showed him Jesus. Ray quit drinking and put his life together. The trade gave him a renewed relationship with Jesus. But then he had allowed the hurt of the trade to push Jesus away. 

And why was he so bitter at hockey? All over Canada, boys dreamed of the life he had lived. Sure, as a hometown player, it hurt to receive such little respect, but did it matter in the big picture of life? Of being on God’s team? People could say what they wanted. It didn’t have to affect who he was

Snow fell. Winter days stretched. Ray forgave those who had hurt him. He released bitterness. But, when God asked Ray to forgive himself, it was harder. 

Too often, Ray had allowed bitterness to drive his words and actions. And after he did that, gnawing guilt ate at him. Now, face-to-face with God, Ray confronted all the ways he had failed. He got it all out in the open. 

God took it, forgave it, and gave Ray peace. Like he had been bathed from the inside out. Relaxation rolling down from the top of his head, flushing through him, spreading out and replacing the old feelings. 

Once he understood how huge God’s forgiveness was, Ray saw God more clearly, worshiped more deeply, and lived in new freedom. 

For sure, in springtime, Manitoba is icy. But Ray’s heart was thawed. He felt connected to God. He read his Bible, journaled hopeful things—like God’s promises—and praised God through music. 

Ray clung to the words he read in the first chapter of Philippians—that God would finish the good work He had started in him. When Ray put God—and His perspective—first, Ray again felt like a champion. 

“Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many” (Hebrews 12:15 NLT). 

The battle we often face is: when our identity is in what we do instead of who we arebeing traded or changing jobs devastate usDo you have the courage to talk honestly with God about your pain? Buried bitterness breeds nothing but trouble. Face off with God; He’ll set you free. 

Based on an interview with Ray Neufeld on October 27, 2019.

January 9. Richard Wurmbrand. In his younger years, Wurmbrand  was an atheist. He prayed: 

“God, I know surely that You do not exist. But if perchance You exist, which I contest, it is not my duty to believe in You; it is Your duty to reveal Yourself to me.” 

But in time, Wurmbrand learned the truth about himself, about God, and about Jesus. Not long after that the world turned upside down; politics suddenly made no sense.  

In 1941, Nazis overran a city in Romania and massacred 13,266 Jews and sympathizers, including many Jewish Christians. That’s the world where Wurmbrand was a Christian, a husband, and a pastor. Here’s what happened. 

At times, your only option may be to speak up. Be bold. 

In 1944, when a million Russian troops poured into Romania, Wurmbrand saw it as an opportunity to share the love of Christ. He felt compelled to help the Russian soldiers know who Jesus was. 

Wurmbrand knew the Communist Party had hijacked these men’s minds; they could no longer think for themselves. They were unable to believe in God unless they were ordered to. 

And the Communist takeover was beyond swift. Twenty-three-year-old King Michael the First had been left on his own to deal with the sudden shift of power. There was no time for a propaganda campaign to sway the masses’ attitudes toward Stalin. 

When the Foreign Secretary of the Soviet Union barged into King Michael’s office, he demanded that Communists be given government positions. Young King Michael could not resist. Communists muscled their way into the Romanian government while war-weary American and British forces finished off the Nazis in Europe. 

Once police and military power in Romania had been dismantled, the overthrow was complete. Churches and their leaders were now subject to Communists, who bombarded the people with constant propaganda and intimidation. 

Knowing Romanians had a strong interest in religion, the Communists sought to consolidate power by gaining the support of all the different kinds of religious leaders. In 1945 they held a meeting of four-thousand pastors, priests, and ministers in the Parliament Building at Bucharest. Stalin was the honorary president of this so-called “Congress of Cults.” 

As a pastor, Wurmbrand was required to attend. One by one, ministers, priests, and bishops from various denominations stood and praised the Communist regime, said the Church could co-exist with Communism, and assured their loyalty to its Stalinist rule. 

“Stand up and wash away this shame from the face of Christ,” Wurmbrand’s wife Sabina told him. In her eyes, they were spitting on Jesus. 

“If I do, you will lose your husband,” Wurmbrand said. 

“I don’t wish to have a coward for a husband,” she answered. 

There was no turning back. Wurmbrand stepped up to the podium in front of a packed audience and praised Jesus, proclaiming that God and His Son Jesus Christ demanded their full loyalty. He broadcast live throughout Romania. 

The powers accused Wurmbrand of counter-revolutionary lies, and he spent 14 years behind bars. His wife Sabina was consigned to slave-labor for three years. Wurmbrand was starved, beaten, tortured, whipped, and pressed to betray his brethren. 

“Why don’t you give in? It’s all so futile. You’re only flesh, and you’ll break in the end,” a tormentor asked him. 

But Wurmbrand wouldn’t break. He knew he was more than flesh—he knew he was a child of God. 

Jesus said, “For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it” (Matthew 16:25). 

Have there been times when what you believe about Jesus has demanded you speak up? At times, your only option may be to speak up. Be bold. 

Would You Like to Learn More About This Man? 

On the night Wurmbrand became a Christian, he wrote, “I do not understand everything that has happened to me, but I believe that my whole life, and the life of all His [God’s] children, has been planned by God, down to the smallest detail.” 

“Richard and Sabina Wurmbrand: Founders of Voice of the Martyrs.” March 29, 2016. Plough. https://​www.plough.com/​en/​topics/​faith/​witness/​richard-and-sabina-wurmbrand

Voice of the Martyrs. “Tortured for Christ: The cost of discipleship for Richard Wurmbrand.” June 26, 2018. CHRISTIAN TODAY. https://​www.christiantoday.com/​article/​tortured-for-christ-the-cost-of-discipleship-for-richard-wurmbrand/​129834. htm

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